About this event
๐๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง. ๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.
4 years ago I was sitting on my bed with tears in my eyes.
My marriage was falling apart.
One sentence my wife had said kept playing in my head:
โI feel unsafe with you. Why can't you just be there for me?โ
I couldn't understand it.
How could she feel unsafe with me? I'm such a lovable and sweet guy.
It took me years to realize something painful:
I had never truly listened to her.
I listened to reply.
To explain myself.
To defend myself.
To help.
To fix.
But not really to connect.
So I started practicing.
With my wife. My friends. My kids. Anyone who would let me ๐
And slowly, something changed.
Eventually my wife told me:
โI don't know what you did, but something really changed. After so long, I again look forward to coming home to you.โ
We still have ups and downs, but that's one of the reasons this workshop exists.
๐ฑ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐?
We all want to be heard.
But being listened to can feel surprisingly uncomfortable.
Taking space. Having someone's full attention. Saying what's actually there without being interrupted, advised, or fixed.
JUST LISTEN is an invitation to experience both sides: to really listen, and to let yourself be listened to.
Expect games, honest sharing, laughter, and moments of deep connection with yourself and others.
There will be no teachings and no pressure to share anything you don't want to.
Just an invitation to connect and play along.
๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
โจ Limited to 16 spots
๐ช Doors open at 18:30
โ ๏ธ Arrive on time, doors close at 18:50
๐ข 19:00 โ 21:00 (keep in mind that the event might finish 30 min later depending on the size and energy of the group)
โ Tea & snacks included
๐ Recap + practical tools sent afterwards
๐ค Short hangout afterwards if you feel like staying
๐ธ A few photos may be taken during the workshop to capture the experience and share future events. If you prefer not to be photographed, just let us know when you arrive.
๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
JUST LISTEN is fully donation-based.
Why? What we'll experience are fundamental human needs, not luxury.
After the session, you're invited to contribute whatever feels right to you. You can do so by QR code or cash.
โ ๏ธSpots are limited, so if you reserve one, please only do so if you intend to come. If your plans change, just let me know as soon as possible so someone else can take your place.
๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐
โI felt the desire to sign up, but I didn't really know why. After the event, it became very clear. I'm so happy I went.โ
โIt was the first time I really dared to speak my truth in front of other people. I never, ever do that.โ
โI came across this event during a difficult moment in my life, feeling lonely and facing a relationship crisis. In just two hours, I felt truly listened to and connected with others. The atmosphere of trust and openness was amazing. We all need to feel understood and connected. It was powerful!"
โจ ๐
๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
If you sometimes miss real connection and enjoy playful yet deep moments with other humans, this workshop might be for you.
Looking forward to sharing this experience together,
Paolo
Spoken language
English, Dutch