Tantric Temple - The Yes, what if shame didnt exists

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A Tantric Temple: The Yess - What if shame didn't exists

Sint-Laurentiuskerk, Weesp · 13 november 2026 · 16:30 tot 23:00
Early Bird 85 euro · Regular 95 euro · Dinner included · Capacity limited

Once a month the doors of Sint-Laurentiuskerk open. Candlelight fills the nave. Music moves through ancient stone. And a community of warm, awake, deeply alive human beings gathers for one reason only.

To celebrate being here.

This Tantric Temple. An evening built entirely around depth, pleasure and the sacred art of being true to who you truly are in this moment. So alive, so warm, so genuinely unlike anything else that people come back month after month and still find something new waiting for them.

THIS EDITION
The Yes becomes Yes to what is. Shame is the gatekeeper of everything you feel and want, not only what's sexual. It says No to wanting too much, to needing safety, to missing a love you lost, to loving someone you're not allowed to, and even to feeling nothing at all.

On 13 November, we go looking for what is buried under it.

This is not a talk about shame. It is a night that activates it and lets it slip away. We will ask you to name your shame, out loud, in this room. Then comes the hard part: say yes to whatever comes up. The longing, the grief, the anger, the heat, the numbness. Yes to all of it, without fixing it, explaining it or hiding it.

Expect to be challenged and stirred. What has been buried will come up. We take you step by step on a journey of yeses. Small first, then deeper. A yes at the door, yes in the body, yes out loud, yes with another person, a yes to yourself and at last a yes to your desires big and small.

Each yes goes a little deeper. You decide how far you go, and every no is honoured, because a real yes needs a real no.

Wear what you would never wear. Find the edge where your shame begins. Be bold, be brave, bring your secret desires.

We gather. We land. We see each other. You are witnessed, celebrated, received and cared for, exactly as you arrive.

Shame loosens when you are seen.
You leave with one yes you have been withholding from yourself, and a way to keep saying it.

FOR YOU
All bodies. All orientations. Singles, couples and those who love beyond the expected. First timers and those who have been here since the very beginning.

The community that gathers in this church is one of the warmest, most conscious, most genuinely alive groups of people you will ever stand in a room with. Come as you are. Leave more alive than when you arrived.

THE DRESSCODE
Tonight, wear what you would never wear.
Find the edge where your shame begins.
Be bold. Be brave. Bring your secret desires, and say yes.

Evelien, Ingrid and Joris