About this event
𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵
𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵
𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦
𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦
𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘛𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦
𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘛𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦…
For some of us stepping into a circle of women feels like a sigh of relief, a safe homecoming. For others, you might notice your heart beat racing and a protective contraction in your belly as your lived experience with women has meant a threat you need to be aware of.
Throughout the ages the simple act of women coming together has posed a threat to the systems of power. We all carry that historical wound together.
And no matter which part of the world or culture you come from when it comes to embodying and expressing our full desires, sensuality and sexuality brings not only pleasure and relaxation but also activates the parts that feel shame and guilt.
As my favorite storyteller Toko Pa says: ‘𝘕𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘥𝘰𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘬 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘱 𝘢𝘴 𝘧𝘶𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘴 𝘸𝘦’𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦. 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘤𝘪𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧. 𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘶𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵, 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘧𝘢𝘪𝘭𝘶𝘳𝘦. 𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘦𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘵 𝘨𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯. 𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴. 𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘥 𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘪𝘥𝘦. 𝘐𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘢𝘣𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘥’
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗶𝗳:
- you are curious to follow either your pull or resistance for this event, whichever keeps you reading
- you are longing for a space filled with like minded and hearted women, to deepen your own practice of connection and pleasure with yourself
- you want to explore the full female expression being witnessed and held by the circle of women who choose to be there in integrity and presence.
We will acknowledge comparing, judging and projecting when they are activated, as they will be and that’s just a part of the conditioned response that most of us learned. We will then lower the volume of that part and amplify the part that can inspire and be inspired, inquire and seek to understand rather than agree or disagree and empower-there is space for everyone’s unique flavor.
𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸:
We will use tools and practices from various origin to get deeply calm and present in our bodies, as a pathway to activate the capacity for pleasure and beauty and the vulnerability that can come with them.
We will use Voice Dialogue to understand which parts are really present in the room. There is deep wisdom and learning in witnessing each other’s authentic expression of all the parts that are alive. There is a specific kind of relief available when something inside of you that desperately wants to be witnessed finally gets expressed.
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲:
- deeply rested and nourished in body, mind, heart and Soul
- having learned new ways to connect more deeply with yourself and to regulate your body and nervous system into safety and open to receive
- with basic understanding of Voice Dialogue and how to use it in your daily life to gain better and clearer understanding of how and when these different parts run the show
You will receive more information about the optional microdosing in the welcome email you receive after booking. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘱𝘥𝘧 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦-𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘏𝘪𝘱𝘴𝘺!
𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵
𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵
𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦
𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦
𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘛𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦
𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘛𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶
𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦…
✨ 𝗙𝗔𝗤:
- 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙚𝙙? — Yes! Every Soul Sex facilitator is personally trained by Katjalisa, co-founder of the Soul Sex movement, and participates in a continuous mentorship program. This program focuses on trauma-information, mirroring blind spots, working with disowned parts, and holding each other accountable to serve the collective with integrity and care. To learn more about our values and how we take care, please read about our community care:
https://soulsexmovement.com/community-care/
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣? — YES, absolutely!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙣𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙙? — Unless stated differently, we have a ‘underwear on’ policy during all events. There won't be any genital penetration happening at any point of the evening.
- 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝙎𝙚𝙭 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙫𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠? — Soul Sex is a healing space. Even though our intention is not to actively dive into trauma work, some exercises might trigger past traumatic experiences. We ask you to get in touch with our team beforehand if you are aware of sexual traumas.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚? — You can totally come alone. If you come as a couple please discuss beforehand if you are open to share experiences with others and clarify the boundaries within your relationship.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧? — Yes.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧? Potentially, we invite you to explore beyond your gender preference and meet each other as beings to connect from heart to heart and go beyond initial preferences.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙖𝙙 𝙤𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙? — Yes, please come as you are—grumpy, unsocial, totally unsexy, the Soul Sex Practice can help you to reconnect to yourself and shift your energy.
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙙𝙚? — No, you’re welcome to wear sexy clothes or show up in your pajamas. Most importantly, you should feel comfortable.
- 𝙎𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙄 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚? — Showering beforehand is appreciated. If you sweat a lot, bring a small towel. Please, avoid strong perfumes or deodorants.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝙎𝙚𝙭? — The Soul Sex Practice isn’t a ‘pick up’ place.
It's about connecting with an open heart without specific intentions or goals. However, if you had a special moment with someone and want to meet up or just express gratitude—go ahead!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙥𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙧 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤𝙨 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙣? — No, the Soul Sex Practice is a phone-and picture-free space.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚 (𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚) 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚? — Yes, you'll receive a welcome email with event details after your registration from Hipsy with a pdf included, and a follow-up email with care instructions afterward. Your email address will be public in the aftercare email, unless you wish to to stay incognito. Please tell us.
- 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙟𝙤𝙞𝙣, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙪𝙩? — We offer three ticket options (Community, Standard, and Supporter) to make the practice accessible. In addition, each practice has one Helper spot available. As a Helper, you join for free in exchange for supporting the space (helping set up, making tea, etc.). Sometimes you will also participate in the practice, depending on group numbers. Reach out to join as a Helper to hello@slowsex.me
To apply as a Helper, we ask that you have joined at least one practice before, so you are familiar with the practice and structure.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙧? — No, sorry, latecomers cannot join unless they have arranged it with the facilitator in advance and the group is informed.
𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗞𝗘𝗧𝗦 & 𝗖𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘𝗟𝗟𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡
All tickets are non-refundable.
Up to 14 days before: You can transfer to another date (email us).
Less than 14 days: You may gift/sell your ticket to someone else. Send us their full name and email.
After booking, please check your confirmation email. Scroll all the way down—there’s an important attachment with everything you need to know for your comfort and pleasure.
We’re honored to welcome you into this practice—and this way of loving, living, and relating.
Let’s slow down. Together.
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